You want to make the most of your first date with a woman, but you don’t want to scare her away. If you plan ahead you can set the scene for your first kiss and make it an occasion she will always remember fondly.
The setting for a first kiss is important. A restaurant, no matter how romantic, is a public place. If you want to kiss your date, you will need some privacy, but you also want her to feel comfortable.
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Making your first kiss special will set the seal on a memorable evening if you plan it right. There are a few tips here that will help you prepare for this important step in your relationship.
1. Plan ahead for the right setting. If you will be bringing your date home, consider if she has a foyer or porch that is reasonably private. A kiss good night is natural and a pleasant end to a romantic evening (click here to find more about this).
Your car is not the ideal location for your first kiss, unless you have a convertible and you park in a romantic spot. An area that is too secluded may make your date uncomfortable.
2. If your date is not comfortable, you won’t get a kiss. Don’t force the situation. Set your date at ease and wait for her signal. If she really likes you she will let you know and the kiss will happen naturally.
Showing respect for your date and being open and natural with her will help her to build the trust you need between you for that first kiss. Touch your date in a non sexual way throughout the date. Hold her hand or take her arm as you walk together.
Physical contact without sexual pressure will help create the right mood for the kiss. Don’t push your date for more than she is willing to offer.
3. It’s okay to ask permission to kiss your date. In fact, it’s a very good idea. It shows respect for your date’s feelings and allows her to control the situation. A woman who feels she is in control will be more responsive.
If your date did not go well, forget the kiss. If your date is angry with you or is not comfortable, she will reject your advances. Only ask your date if you may kiss her when you think your request will be well received. Pushing a kiss on an unwilling partner will not get you a second date.